
Gratitude is formally defined as “the quality of being thankful;
readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.”[1] Gratitude is not just a random expression of thanks, but rather a mindful
activity that has been proven to have measurable effects on your mental,
emotional, and physical health. CMN stands for this multi-dimensional
approach to cancer treatment, and believes that our treatments should
increase your overall quality of life, not just simply attack the cancer
cells. As such, we believe that practicing gratitude is a medicine, and
one that you have complete control over. Practicing gratitude on a daily
basis is important, and has the potential to change your life!
What Studies Have Shown: The Power of Gratitude
Gratitude has been studied through a scientific lens many times, especially
over the past decade, and the results have been largely replicated, showing
that expressing gratitude has positive physical, mental, and emotional
results. For example, a study conducted by the University of California,
Berkeley, has revealed many of the positive benefits of expressing gratitude,
which are outlined as follows:[2]
Physical
- Stronger immune system
- Less bothered by aches and pains
- Lower blood pressure
- Exercise more and take better care of their health
- Sleep longer and feel more refreshed upon waking
Psychological
- Higher levels of positive emotions
- More alert, alive, and awake
- More joy and pleasure
- More optimism and happiness
Social
- More helpful, generous, and compassionate
- More forgiving
- More outgoing
- Feel less lonely and isolated
A separate, independent study carried out by Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D., at
the University of California at Davis and his colleague Mike McCullough
at the University of Miami further supports this. In their experiment:[3]
“randomly assigned participants were given one of three tasks. Each
week, participants kept a short journal. One group briefly described five
things they were grateful for that had occurred in the past week, another
five recorded daily hassles from the previous week that displeased them,
and the neutral group was asked to list five events or circumstances that
affected them, but they were not told whether to focus on the positive
or on the negative. Ten weeks later, participants in the gratitude group
felt better about their lives as a whole and were a full 25 percent happier
than the hassled group. They reported fewer health complaints, and exercised
an average of 1.5 hours more.
Thus, it can be concluded that gratitude helps people to feel happier,
lighter, and more energy in their daily lives (which helps to explain
the increase in exercise). Gratitude is also linked into higher quality
of mental and emotional health.
Notably, expressing gratitude can greatly affect the quality of life for
cancer warriors by helping them to overcome trauma. “A 2006 study
published in
Behavior Research and Therapy found that Vietnam War Veterans with higher levels of gratitude experienced
lower rates of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. A 2003 study published in the
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that gratitude was a major contributor to resilience following the
terrorist attacks on September 11. Recognizing all you have to be thankful
for – even during the worst times of your life – fosters resilience.”[4] Such resilience helps cancer warriors to fight harder, stronger, and longer.
Tips for Expressing Gratitude
Published “research by UC Davis psychologist Robert Emmons, author of
Thanks!: How the new Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier, shows that simply keeping a gratitude journal—regularly writing
brief reflections on moments for which we’re thankful—can
significantly increase well-being and life satisfaction.”[5] This task can have amazing, long-lasting and far-reaching results, and
requires very little: you can complete this with a pen and notebook, on
your phone or laptop, or even on a scrap piece of paper. The important
aspect is that you take the time to mindfully reflect on what you are
truly thankful for. Your list may start out simply, with gratitude for
a roof over your head and the ability to write things down. Over time,
you will reach further; your list may become more elaborate, or extend
beyond a page. There are no rules, aside from listing things that you are
truly and sincerely grateful for.
Another way in which you can implement gratitude expression into your daily
life is through letters, or quick texts. Maybe you will make a promise
to yourself that you will send out a quick text message (or email) when
you first wake up to someone that you are grateful for; maybe you will
elaborate further and choose to write a letter that reflects on your gratitude
at the end of your day, before you go to bed. This is ultimately up to
you: you know yourself better than anyone else, so you have the right
to dictate how, when, where, and why you would like to express your gratitude.
To Learn More
Gratitude is an excellent act to implement into your everyday life. It
may not rid your body of cancer, but it is a powerful medicine that can
provide you with inner-peace and the ability to strengthen your bonds
with members of your
cancer community and the other people around you. Gratitude, like forgiveness, is unique
in that you have absolute control over it: you choose what to be grateful
for and when and how to express it; the key is that you do so with sincerity.
Gratitude has tremendous psychological and psychosocial value, and will
ultimately increase your appreciation for the life you live. To learn
more about expressing gratitude, or the mental and emotional support activities
that CMN provides, click
here or email us at
info@cmnact.com.
[1] “Gratitude.”
Merriam-Webster.
[2] Emmons, Robert. “Why Gratitude is Good.”
Greater Good, UC Berkeley. 2010.
[3] Robbins, Ocean. “The Neuroscience of Why Gratitude Makes Us Healthier.”
The Huffington Post. 2011.
[4] Morin, Amy. “7 Scientifically Proven Benefits of Gratitude That
Motivate You to Give Thanks Year-Round.”
Forbes. 2014.
[5] Carpenter, Derrick MAPP. “The Science Behind Gratitude (and How
It Can Change Your Life).
Happify Daily.